Best Places To Meet Trans In Oakland In 2023
Currently the best places to meet transgenders in Oakland will usually be at bars or nightclubs that have drag shows or other related events taking place like Ru Paul’s Drag Race watch parties. They are often LGBTQ bars or clubs and may not be exactly what you were hoping for, but right now they will be your best option.
When it comes to trying to meet up with Oakland trans women the bars near you may not be full of ts and the people who are looking to meet them, but there should be more in them than any other random place in the city.
Hopefully our ts bar map can point you somewhere close to where you are at and after the nightlife is out of the way we will move on to the best t4m dating site on the planet which works great when trying to meet trans in your area.
A few links and resources that may help you and some of the ts-girls who have found this post will come next before we briefly share some thoughts on topics like trans strip clubs, escorts, brothels and ladyboy massage spas which get searched for on our site daily.
Whether you found our site by searching for Oakland transsexuals, shemales, ts-girls, ladyboys, or any other slang those are all referring to the same type of people and since most prefer to be referred to as transgenders we will respect their wishes and generally use that terminology.
Of course there are many trans hot spots in San Francisco and that link can lead you to them.
Best Trans Bars In Oakland
Here is a list of the best Oakland trans bars and nightclubs:
- White Horse Bar – 6551 Telegraph Ave
- Club 1220 – 1220 Pine St, Walnut Creek
- The Port Bar – 2023 Broadway
- Que Rico – 381 15th St
- Townhouse Lounge – 401 Georgia St, Vallejo
That ts bar map should make things a little easier on you. As stated in the intro those are mostly LGBTQ bars and nightclubs or other venues that have drag shows.
Don’t expect these to be pick up bars full of trans women and the guys who want to try and hook up with them as those don’t exist at the moment.
If you aren’t really looking to go out to LGBT bars close to home we also covered the ladyboy nightlife in Portland, San Jose, Fresno and Los Angeles if you are up for a drive. But if you were just thinking about that because you want to stay discreet save that gas money and instead read our m4t online dating section.
Somewhere like The Alice Collective is beginning to have weekly drag shows too, though we didn’t want to include it in the local shemale pick up spot list.
White Horse Bar
White Horse Bar opened in 1993 and you can visit them for drag shows, karaoke, trivia and more from 5pm to 12am Tuesday through Thursday, 5pm to 2am on Friday and Saturday and from 3pm to 10pm on Sunday but they are closed on Monday.
They are also home to the very popular Rebel Kings of Oakland drag show.
- White Horse Bar’s Website
- White Horse Bar’s Instagram
- White Horse Bar’s Facebook
- White Horse Bar’s Twitter
Having originally opened back in 1976 Club 1220 is located in the Walnut Creek neighbourhood and you can visit them from 4pm to midnight on Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Sunday or until 1am on Wednesday and 2am on weekend nights. Some specific events to be on the lookout for would include their monthly drag queen bingo but they have more drag shows and trans events too.
The Port Bar
The Port Bar opened in 2014 and you can head there to try and meet ts near you from 5pm to 12am Tuesday through Thursday, 3pm to 1:45am on Friday and Saturday and from 11am to 11pm on Sunday but don’t go on Monday because the doors will be closed.
Many of their drag shows feature trans performers who you may have seen on Ru Paul’s Drag Race in the past.
Que Rico is a relatively new bar that opened in 2021 and they have popular drag brunches on Saturdays. Friday nights they also have drag shows.
Don’t visit them on Sunday or Monday because they will be closed, but you can check out what they have going on the rest of the week from 6pm to 11pm Tuesday through Thursday, 5pm to 2am on Friday and from 8pm to 2am on Saturday.
Townhouse Lounge opened in 2014 and you can visit them from 4pm to 12am Monday and Tuesday, 1pm to 12am on Wednesday, 1pm to 2am on Thursday and Friday and from 10am to 12am on Sunday. Check out the Ava LaShay drag shows on Saturday nights to party with Oakland ladyboys.
Local T4M Online Dating
Since there aren’t any perfect bar or nightlife options the best way meet trans in your area of Oakland is going to be online by using MyTransgenderDate which was established all the way back in 2013. Over the years it has grown into the biggest and best trans dating site on the planet with over 125,000 users worldwide.
The local ts bar scene isn’t great yet and some might be a little shy to go out in it anyways. You never know who you might come across on a night out and some people have big mouths and love to talk about others.
Some of you reading this might be worried that friends or family might somehow see them in the local ts bar scene or that you might bump into some co-workers that could lead to problems at the work place.
Well MyTransgenderDate will be the easiest way for you to contact a lot of Oakland transsexuals in a very short amount of time. Enjoy a nice chat, maybe have a video call and when you find the one you like take the next step.
Whether you want serious ts dating near you, a life partner, or just a casual fling and hooking up there will probably be someone for you on MyTransgenderDate. A group of trans women run the site and they put a ton of effort into keeping it a safe space for the entire community.
Signing up is free so it can’t hurt to take a look and see if anyone catches your eye.
TS Strip Clubs, Escorts & Sex Massage
Oakland trans strip clubs, escorts and sex massage spas are always getting searched for on our site but for a variety of reasons we aren’t comfortable discussing the paid ts sex scene too deeply. If you want to hire a trans prostitute near you or visit a sex massage spa with ladyboys working we aren’t judging you, but for legal reasons we can’t promote any kind of prostitution, shemale or otherwise.
Just remember to proceed with caution, don’t believe everything you read online and always wear a condom with a trans escort or when paying for sex at a local ts brothel or sex massage spa with ladyboys just as you should with any prostitute or sex worker.
If we knew of any transgender strip clubs in Oakland we would certainly mention them but as of our last check they aren’t around yet. If any open up or if we hear about any ts stripper nights at other gentleman’s clubs around the city we will be sure to update this post accordingly.
Other Links & Resources
Now we briefly want to share a few transgender and other LGBQ links and resources:
Expect there to be plenty of other opportunities to party with hot t girls during Pridefest in September.
Enjoy Meeting Oakland Transgenders
How and where to meet Oakland transgenders in your area including the top ts bars and nightclubs with frequent drag shows or other related events were just covered in full detail. You also learned about the best t4m online dating site in the world MyTransgenderDate which works great here and has over 125,000 members across the planet.
Whether you came to our site in search of ladyboys near you, shemales, transsexuals, ts-girls, or any other term you now should feel ready to plan your next move.
We really hope you enjoy meeting transgenders in Oakland at the bars, nightclubs, or through the dating site.