For the time being the best places to meet transgenders in San Diego will usually be at bars or nightclubs that have drag shows or other related events taking place like Ru Paul’s Drag Race watch parties which is the case all around The US. They are often LGBTQ bars or clubs and may not be exactly what you were hoping for, but right now they will be your best option.
When it comes to trying to meet up with San Diego trans women the bars near you may not be full of ts and the people who are looking to meet them, but there should be more in them than any other random place in the city.
Hopefully our ts bar map can point you somewhere close to where you are at and after the nightlife is out of the way we will move on to the best t4m dating site on the planet which works great when trying to meet trans in your area.
A few links and resources that may help you and some of the ts-girls who have found this post will come next before we briefly share some thoughts on topics like trans strip clubs, escorts, brothels and ladyboy massage spas which get searched for on our site daily.
Whether you found our site by searching for San Diego transsexuals, shemales, ts-girls, ladyboys, or any other slang those are all referring to the same type of people and since most prefer to be referred to as trans or transgenders we will respect their wishes and generally use that terminology.
Best Trans Bars In San Diego
Here is an up to date list of the best San Diego trans bars and nightclubs:
Baja Betty’s – 1421 University Ave
Rich’s – 1051 University Ave
Brass Rail – 3796 Fifth Ave
Lips Restaurant – 3036 El Cajon Blvd
Urban MO’s – 308 University Ave
Gossip Grill – 1220 University Ave
Flicks – 1017 University Ave
Pecs – 2046 University Ave
The main areas for LGBT nightlife are in Hillcrest and North Park, and as you can see University Ave is a big time potential ts hot spot. That ts bar map should make things a little easier on you. As stated in the intro those are mostly LGBTQ bars and nightclubs or other venues that have drag shows.
Don’t expect these to be pick up bars full of trans women and the guys who want to try and hook up with them as those don’t exist at the moment. Of course you can find many more ts girls in Los Angeles or Bakersfield, plus some shemales in Tijuana. Or if you want to see what things are like on the big island we also covered Honolulu, but why travel so far when you can just use the t4m dating site to meet trans women near you discreetly?
Rich’s
Rich’s is a very popular LGBTQ night that has been doing their thing for over thirty years and you can go drink and dance while hoping to meet local trans women there from 10pm to 2am on Wednesday and Thursday or starting at 9pm Friday through Sunday.
They put on events pretty much every night that they are open and many involve drag shows, but remember this is an all around LGBTQ nightclub so don’t expect it to be fully loaded with ts whenever you show up.
Since 1960 Brass Rail has been a San Diego transgender hot spot and they put on a wide variety of drag shows each month that generally take place on weekend nights. They are open from early evening until 2am Wednesday through Saturday and starting at 2am on Sunday.
Lips Restaurant opened in 2009 and it offers wonderful dinner and drag shows Tuesday through Sunday including drag brunches on weekends but they still have shows at night on Saturday and Sunday too. With 11 weekly shows in all this is clearly one of the top drag bars to meet crossdressers near you.
Urban MO’s launched in 1992 and you can head over from 10am to 11pm Monday through Friday, 9am to 1am on Saturday and from 9am to 11pm on Sunday. Located in the Hillcrest LGBTQ nightlife area you should definitely check out their highly popular DreamGirls Revue which goes down weekly.
They also have Drag Bingo, Dinner Theater with their Diva’s and more fun events that feature hot transsexuals.
For the past 15 years Gossip Grill has been another solid option, particularly for their Sunday drag brunches, Wednesday Drag Bingo with Mariam T and Kings Club Drag Show every second Friday at 8pm.
Go see all they have to offer from 2pm to 9pm on Monday, 2pm to 12am Tuesday through Thursday, 2pm to 2am on Friday, 10am to 2am on Saturday and from 10am to 10pm on Sunday.
At Flicks their motto is “drinks, drag, gogo’s and more” so you can see why they have been one of the go to spots to try and meet San Diego trans women near you since 1983. Party there from 4pm to 2am Monday through Thursday, 2pm to 2am on Friday and Saturday and from 12pm to 2am on Sunday to see who you can meet.
For the past 15 years local ts have been partying at Pecs in North Park and their current hours of operation are noon to midnight Sunday through Thursday and until 2am on weekend nights. Their Ru Paul’s Drag Race watch parties on Friday nights would be one of the top times to visit if hooking up with ladyboys is the goal.
Baja Betty’s opened in 2004 and you can visit them for tasty Mexican food and margarita’s until 9pm Sunday through Thursday or until 10pm on weekend nights. They also have popular drag brunches and you can even book your own event to be held in their Backdoor Betty’s private area and hire one of the drag queens to host the event.
Since there aren’t any perfect bar or nightlife options the best way meet trans in your area of San Diego is going to be online by using MyTransgenderDate which was established all the way back in 2013. Over the years it has grown into the biggest and best trans dating site on the planet with over 125,000 users worldwide.
The local ts bar scene isn’t great yet and some might be a little shy to go out in it anyways. You never know who you might come across on a night out and some people have big mouths and love to talk about others.
Some of you reading this might be worried that friends or family might somehow see them in the local ts bar scene or that you might bump into some co-workers that could lead to problems at the work place.
Just think about how much easier and more discreet it will be for you to contact a lot of San Diego transsexuals in a very short amount of time on MyTransgenderDate. Enjoy a nice chat, maybe have a video call and when you find the one you like take the next step.
Whether you want serious ts dating near you, a life partner, or just a casual fling and hooking up there will probably be someone for you on MyTransgenderDate. A group of trans women run the site and they put a ton of effort into keeping it a safe space for the entire community.
Signing up is free so it can’t hurt to take a look and see if anyone catches your eye.
TS Strip Clubs, Escorts & Sex Massage
San Diego trans strip clubs, escorts and sex massage spas are always getting searched for on our site but for a variety of reasons we aren’t comfortable discussing the paid ts sex scene too deeply. If you want to hire a trans prostitute near you or visit a sex massage spa with ladyboys working we aren’t judging you, but for legal reasons we can’t promote any kind of prostitution, shemale or otherwise.
Just remember to proceed with caution, don’t believe everything you read online and always wear a condom with a trans escort or when paying for sex at a local ts brothel or sex massage spa with ladyboys just as you should with any prostitute or sex worker.
If we knew of any transgender strip clubs in San Diego we would certainly mention them but as of our last check they aren’t around yet. If any open up or if we hear about any ts stripper nights at other gentleman’s clubs around the city we will be sure to update this post accordingly.
Other Links & Resources
Now we briefly want to share a few transgender and other LGBQ links and resources:
Don’t forget that there should be quite a few parties going on during Pride in July that will give you plenty more options to find hot t girls.
Enjoy Meeting San Diego Transgenders
How and where to meet San Diego transgenders in your area including the top ts bars and nightclubs with frequent drag shows or other related events were just covered in full detail. You also learned about the best t4m online dating site in the world MyTransgenderDate which works great here and has over 125,000 members across the planet.
Whether you came to our site in search of ladyboys near you, shemales, transsexuals, ts-girls, or any other term you now should feel ready to plan your next move.
We really hope you enjoy meeting transgenders in San Diego at the bars, nightclubs, or through the dating site.
